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Hello, my name is Cindy Kaywin, after my third marriage abruptly ended in such a traumatic way I decided to write my story. After some much needed therapy I started that journey and it was during this time it became very clear to me how little I loved myself over the years. Most of my life I gave so much of my self away to others: a significant other within a relationship, a friend in need, a family member and yes even to my children, I totally lost who I was. I felt empty, under valued, not worthy of peoples time or love and that I just didn't matter to anyone. Of course through my therapy I found none of this to be true but what I also discovered was that it's ok for me to love myself first, above anyone and anything else. The old me would have felt guilty or selfish for even saying these words but today I know that it's selfish of me to not have this self love.

So many of us women go about our days doing so much for others that we forget about ourselves in the process. That we just don't have the time or energy to put into ourselves because by the end of the day we are exhausted. Many of us just feel unworthy or under-valued in our lives and relationships. We take less than deserved treatment from others and think that its ok to be treated this way. I am here to tell you that it is NOT. How others treat us, or I should say how poorly others treat us, is not their fault, its ours. At the end of the day YOU are accountable for how you allow others to treat you. Ultimately it starts with how you treat yourself. If you do not fully love yourself above anyone and anything, then you can't truly love or be loved. We all, both men and woman, must take responsibility for loving ourselves first above any one person and relationship.

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